Life has been coming at me hard these past few weeks, making me realize what hard work is. I’m not sure where my lack of motivation came from but it’s wearing on my body and mind. Being in grad school is by far the hardest thing I have done yet…but I am still standing (slightly) strong. I know this is just temperately. I just want to be done so I can move to DC LOL. okay rant over
Sometimes you end up never speaking to someone who meant the world to you again. And that’s okay. You cope and you survive. Don’t let your losses keep you back from new gains.
My love is too delicate to have thrown back in my face.
Women hear it all the time from men. “You’re overreacting,” we tell them. “Don’t worry about it so much, you’re over-thinking it.” “Don’t be so sensitive.” “Don’t be crazy.” It’s a form of gaslighting — telling women that their feelings are just wrong, that they don’t have the right to feel the way that they do. Minimizing somebody else’s feelings is a way of controlling them. If they no longer trust their own feelings and instincts, they come to rely on someone else to tell them how they’re supposed to feel.
Please be careful with me. Sometimes I just get sad and I don’t know why. I’m sorry.